HOW
CAN YOUR PARTNER HELP YOU COPE WITH THE
LABOUR?
For
many couples, being together in welcoming their
baby is an experience that they can't put in
words. Many of the fathers who have seen their
baby's birth and who have played a part
themselves feel much closer to the child from
the very start.
Whosoever be your labour
partner, be it your husband, friend or relative,
he/she can help you cope with the labour by
being with you and by understanding a few
essential things such as mentioned below.They
can:
Give you company and help pass the time in
early stages of labour
Hold your hand, wipe your face, give you
sips of water, massage your back and shoulders,
help you move about or change position, or
anything else that helps and comforts you as
your labour progresses and your contractions get
stronger
Remind you on how to use relaxation and
breathing techniques and at times breathe with
you if it helps
Support your decisions about things like
taking pain relief and others
Help you make it clear to the doctor or
nurse what help you need - and the other way
round which can help you feel much more in
control of the situation
When your baby is born, to tell you what is
happening as you can not see what is going on
for yourself
WHAT
HAPPENS DURING THE NORMAL DELIVERY?
During the normal delivery, the labour
contractions open the cervix in a slow manner.
Once the cervix is open entirely, the
contractions help in pushing the baby through
the birth canal (vagina). In most of the cases,
baby's head comes first which is followed by
shoulders and the rest of the body, while in
other cases where some women find it
difficult,the doctors may use forceps or suction
cup only after your permission. Also, several
women choose different birthing positions like
bending, or semi reclining.
You may get small
tear in the region of vaginal opening during the
delivery and if your vaginal opening is very
close, the doctor may make a small cut around
it, to increase the tear (episiotomy).
Mostly, these tears
need stitches but
they dissolve during the healing process. These
tears may make you uneasy for a few
days.
Generally, the placenta comes out
easily after delivery, while in few cases, the
doctor removes it manually under anaesthesia
when it does not come out on its own. Also, some
women lose small amount of blood during the
delivery, but if the amount of blood loss is
greater, blood transfusion may be
required.
WHAT
HAPPENS DURING THE DELIVERY BY CAESAREAN
SECTION?
During caesarean delivery, the doctor makes
an incision in the pregnant women's abdomen to
get the delivery done. In this case, the women
will be under anaesthesia.
Normally, 15% -
25% of deliveries are caesarean deliveries;
amongst them some are planned while others may
be due to emergency.
Most common reasons for
caesarean delivery are:
Baby needs quick delivery
Baby is not in head down position
Baby's head does not fit in the birth
passage
Labour does not progress as expected
Mother's or baby's health is at risk
WHATTHINGS DO YOU NEED FOR GOING BACK
HOME?
You should carry loose fitted and easy to
wear clothes for yourself and for the baby, you
must carry a cap, some nappies and a shawl or
blanket.
In case of normal delivery, you can
go home within 2-3 days while in case of a
caesarean delivery; you can go home within 3-4
days, only on doctors' advice.
If you have
any concerns about yourself and your baby and
how to take care of the newborn, you can discuss
them with your obstetrician and
paediatrician.
DELIVERY SERVICES AT ARTEMIS
Giving birth to a baby is the most joyful
moment in a woman's life. But for most, this
moment may become the most frightful and
uncomfortable experience of their life, due to
lack of proper facilities. At Artemis, we have a
dedicated labour and delivery complex with six
state-of-the-art LDRP suites, dedicated OT,
Level-Ill NICU, and a team of doctors and nurses
who are specially trained to provide you the
best of care you deserve. We believe every
labouring woman should have her own personal
space. We respect your privacy, and also
understand how troublesome it is to be shifted
from one place to another multiple times when
you are under such stress. Hence we introduce
the concept of LDRP; i.e. Labour Delivery
Recovery and Post-partum care in one private
room, where you and your family can welcome the
new member of the family in a home like setting
with all the facilities, equipment
and personnel available
to ensure a safe and
comfortable delivery and tackle any kind of
problems to you and your baby. Our endeavour is
to make the birth of your baby the most
cherished moment of your
life.
WHAT
ARE THE SIGNS OF LABOUR PAIN?
Regular Contractions: During the latter half of pregnancy,
you may feel contractions (Braxton Hicks
Contractions). If you experience these
contractions regularly and these last for more
than 30 seconds, labour may have started.
Gradually, these contractions will become
longer, stronger and more frequent.
Other signs of
labour:
Backache:You may
feel heavy in the back
A "Show": Either before labour starts or in early
labour, the plug of mucus, which helps to seal
the womb during pregnancy, comes out of the
vagina. When this sticky mucus gets mixed with
little blood, it is called a 'Show'
Water Breaks: If the water in which the baby is
floating breaks before the labour, you will
notice a small trickle from your vagina or a
sudden gush of water
Nausea or Vomitting
Diarrhoea
WHEN
IS IT ADVISABLE TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL?
Your gynaecologist or physician may advice
you to proceed to the hospital, if:
Your water breaks
The contractions start. You can wait till
they last for about 60 seconds in every 5-minute
interval (if you stay near the hospital)
Your residence is at a distance from the
hospital. Go sooner than later
Do not forget to phone the hospital/unit
before leaving
home.
WHAT
ARE THE THINGS YOU SHOULD CARRY TO THE HOSPITAL
AT THE TIME OF DELIVERY?
You must keep your bags ready six weeks prior
to the due date of delivery. During your stay in
the hospital, you will wear hospital gowns and
your baby will be provided with hospital
clothing. Also, you will be given toiletries at
the hospital. Personal clothing will be required
only at the time of discharge.
Other
essential things you must carry to the hospital
include:
Medical records
Address book or list of family/friends
Slippers, cosmetics, hair comb/brush
Soap.towel.toothbrush and paste (ifyou
preferyourown)
Glasses/contact lenses
Books and magazines
Nursing bras and underwear
A set of clothes, preferably front opening
night suits, track suits and t-shirts (ifyou
prefer your own)
Clothes to go home in
Any medication you are currently taking
For the
baby:
Diapers
Socks/booties
Blanket with plastic cover
Sweater, cap and heavy blanket would be
necessary during winters
Baby vests and clothes
WHAT
NOT TO CARRY TO THE HOSPITAL?
You
must remove all the jewellery before leaving for
the hospital for delivery or these will be
handed over to your family when you get
admitted. The hospital will not be responsible
for any of your
valuables.
WHAT
TO EXPECT WHEN YOU COME TO THE
HOSPITAL?
When you go into labour:
Avoid consuming heavy stuff like milk, ghee
or dry fruits before coming to the hospital and
take clear liquids or nothing till the doctor
examines you. Thereafter, the doctor will advise
you about your diet
You should carry your reports to the
admission desk
You will be taken to the labour delivery
complex and the nurse will guide you to your
room and help you change into a hospital gown or
a nightdress. Also, she will check your vitals
and baby's heartbeat
The doctor will examine you regularly to see
how far you have progressed. Also, the baby's
heartbeat will be checked at regular intervals
or continuously with an electronic foetal
monitor in case of any concern
Some blood test might be done when you get
admitted
You can have clear liquids but your doctor
may instruct you not to consume anything by
mouth in case there are chances of a caesarean
section
An IV line may be essential for women
requiring extra fluids, in case of certain types
of pain relief, and if the labour is induced or
augmented
After discussing with your doctor, you can
take the pain relief, if required
HOW
TO COPE WITH THE LABOUR PAIN?
Fear
makes pain worse. Everyone feels frightened of
what they do not understand or cannot control.
Therefore, it is essential to understand and
learn about the labour.
You can follow these
steps to cope with the stress of labour:
Learn to relax as it will help you to stay
calm
Your position can also make a difference.
Some women like to kneel, walk around or rock
backwards and forwards
Back massage can also help. You may ask your
partner to do it for you
Feeling in control of what is happening to
you is important. So do not hesitate to ask
questions or to ask for anything you want at any
time
Having a partner, friend or relative you can
lean on and who can support you during labour,
certainly helps. It has been shown to reduce the
need for pain relief. But even if you do not
have anyone, don't worry; our nurses will give
you the support you need
Finally, no one can tell you what your
labour can feel like in
advance. Even if you think you would prefer
not to have pain relief, keep an open mind. In
some instances it can help to make your labour
more enjoyable and
fulfilling
Tag :
Painless Labour, Labour Pain, Painless
Labour Care, Painless Labour Hospital